THE POWER OF MINDSET


I’ve always believed that self-awareness and overall knowledge arrive from learning from the widest range of people possible.

Wherever I go in the world, I speak to people - even interview them in conversation. Everyone has a story to tell and different life experiences. This is knowledge sharing, and I’m hungry for these types of exchange. For me, the knowledge-pool can never be too wide or deep.

This will be one of the focuses of this Adventure Everything blog. I want to share the experiences I’ve had from meeting people.

People do fascinate me, and it’s also why I believe travel is so important. The wider you travel, the broader the depth of knowledge you will learn from people from a wide range of backgrounds.

It’s perhaps ironic, then, that the first person to feature on this blog comes from a place just a few minutes drive from my own home in Edinburgh.

I first met John Loughton in London last year. We were attending the US Embassy to get visas for our Exploring American Values Tour - along with a bunch of other talented and inspiring UK creatives (pic above outside White House).

It felt odd that John and I had a similar background, were from the same end of Edinburgh (roughly), were the same age and yet had never met.

I knew who he was: I remember seeing him 10 years ago on celebrity Big Brother (he wasn’t a celebrity, but entered as a ‘Hijack’ contestant), a show he ended up winning (pic below).

Over the course of our trip in the US, I got to know John pretty well. His stories are deep and fascinating, and his achievements vast.

I think the most impressive thing about John is his humility. He meets all these amazing people, from heads of state to company CEOs, but doesn’t forget his roots. He is just as engaged with grass roots activities, working with youth in Edinburgh’s troubled north, where he grew up.

Big Brother was a big moment in his life, and certainly changed his fortunes, but he’s had several life-changing experiences, such as being sent to Malawi in Africa as a teenager in a delegation with the Scottish Youth Parliament.

It’s stories like this he weaves into his mindset training. We went a run the other day - probably the only time I’d ran other than playing football many years ago. I didn’t believe I was physically or mentally able to do more than a single kilometre of distance, thanks largely to capability barriers I’d set in my own mind.

He taught me the power of mindset is taking back control, so that you can reset the abilities you believe you possess.  In the event, from 1 kilometre I ended up running 10. If I could reset a physical limitation which I thought I had, on the spot, what else could be achieved through mindset?

Due to lack of stamina, heart palpitations/anxiety and general fitness shape, I never imagined I could run far at all. As we ran, John was able to tweak my thinking, resulting in a physical alteration in the distance I was able to run.

If John wasn’t there with me, would I have done it? Would I have even got out of bed? I’d say probably not.

Today John runs leadership-training firm Dare2Lead. I am usually sceptical of 'coaching' and self-professed ‘gurus’ - but through meeting John I truly understand the impact of someone showing you how to alter ‘micro-mindsets’ in various situations, and how much of a positive impact that can have on your life.

Over the course of the next month, we are putting together a series of ‘getting to know John’ videos, which he will share on his social media accounts, including YouTube, Instagram and Facebook. 

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5 comments


  • DIane C

    I am addicted to ur vlogs Shaun. You are warm, funny and sensitive. It makes no matter if you are touring Scotland, shoveling snow, running the dogs or introducing us to Tekka’s home country of Brazil-you are a very interesting and engaging young man. I look forward to your daily vlog so try and keep them coming. I have introduced you to family and friends here in the USA and general consensus is A+. We love your red hair and beard, your accent, your country and everything about you and Adventure Everything!


  • Ginny B.

    As we ate up the distance, I felt an overwhelming sense of power. I was taking back control of my physical body, and it felt so liberating.

    This excerpt resonated incredibly with me. I never took my love of running as a sense of power however now I understand that it is. I call my running “my salvation” but now I see it for what it is, it is my power…and salvation. I loved your first newsletter, I’m heading over to Patreon to give you some love and support. Your words touched me.


  • Diane

    This email is so great to read and I clicked on to a couple of your past videos ( the ones when you visisted the US last year for Memorial Day and visiting the NRA (I sure would like to hear your take on THAT visit. As a US citizen (born and raised) I don’t have a LOVE of the gun and using the 2nd Amendment as an excuse to have so many guns (and that shot of the Polar Bear resonates the mind set of so many people that don’t respect life) in this country…but I digress…thanks for sharing you thoughts…looking forward for more insights from you, Shaun !


  • Cintha

    This is awesome. Looking forward to your emails and inspiration to move through fears and “reset the abilities you believe you possess”. I admire your courage to break through boundaries. Your gliding experience was amazing. Thanks Shaun!


  • Lori S.

    Good for you! I have similar physical & psychological limitations when it comes to running and challenging my heart rate. I’m going for a jog tomorrow, dammit!


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